Oheka Castle Wedding – Michelle & Frank’s Highlight Reel
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Picturesque…. that’s the one word I would use to sum up Sam and Yoshi’s wedding, if I was forced to use just one word, because the location at the Scripps Seaside Forum, in La Jolla, California is just beautiful. The west coast of the United States will always have something that the east coast never will: beautiful beaches alongside treacherous cliffs with a setting sun. Yes, the east coast has beautiful beaches and you may find some cliffs (in Maine), but never with a setting sun. We have amazing sunrises on the east coast, but our sunsets do not compare to those on the west coast.
A beautiful location for all of their friends and family to enjoy, that’s all Sam and Yoshi wanted for their wedding! They could not have asked for a more perfect day! The sun was shining, the temperature was just right. And the day was filled with so many laughs, smiles, friends, family and love! Even I felt it!
Because of weddings like this, I may just move to the west coast! 😉
I just want to say Thank you to Sam and Yoshi for having me as their photographer! I truly enjoyed photographing your wedding day!
Venue –Scripps Seaside Forum
Wedding Coordinator – Dejah Urbanovitch
Hair / Make Up – Joan Latonio
DJ – DJ Smiles
Videographer – Maicol Chavez
Photographer – Esvy Photography & Films
Catering – Continental Catering
This wedding was actually earlier in the summer, but due to a number factors, we were not able to post the photos until now. But I remember it like it was yesterday! It was that much fun and filled with so much love! People traveled from as far as New Zealand and Australia just to be there for their friends and family! Everywhere you turned, you felt the love. Even my 2nd photographer and assistant commented how much they felt the love, as well. It was a pretty perfect day for everyone.
Venue – Beth Tzedec
Make Up – Vanessa Funtera Makeup
Hair – Anna Barseghian
Entertainment – It’s Pure Entertainment
Florist – Mum’s Garden
With this week being Thanksgiving in the United States, I’m truly truly thankful for all of the wonderful clients and couples that we get to photograph. Most of our clients are straight up wonderful people, with kinds hearts and great families! We are really lucky!
And thankfully that trend of great clients continues with Laura and Lonnie! Two super laid back, fun loving people! And their wedding was a blast! Laura was like a little energizer bunny running around and dancing up a storm! I wish I could dance like her! The day went off pretty perfectly! Great weather! Lots of wonderful people! And tons of fun!
It was the “BEST DAY EVER!!” (See the photos to see what I’m talking about) 🙂
Venue: Carlyle On The Green
Hair – Jolene Daniello
Make Up – Jamie Seader
DJ — Hank Lane: More than Music (DJ Lou)
Cake – Dortoni’s Bakery
If you’ve ever read “The Great Gatsby” or seen the movie, you know that it’s set on Long Island’s Gold Coast. And there is no venue on Long Island that embodies the spirit and elegance of Gatsby as Oheka Castle. It’s a one of kind venue and serves as a location for many shows, movies, music videos and, of course, weddings. So when Michelle first contacted us about photographing her wedding at Oheka, you know it’s going to be an an elegant affair.
The day was pretty much perfect! Blue skies, warm temps and everything pretty much went exactly as planned! Michelle & Frank could not have asked for a more perfect day.
Michelle and Frank are also 1 of the sweetest couples! They were so chill and relaxed for much of the day! They also have 1 of the cutest flower girls that we’ve ever photographed at a wedding! And I’m so glad that they chose us to be their photographer and cinematographer! I wish all clients could be as cool as them!
So, last week, I was in a normal consultation with a bride. And as we were wrapping up the meeting, she asked, “What are the common mistakes made by most brides?” And I thought, “Wow, that’s a good question. No one has ever asked me that before.” So I thought it would a good blog post to help brides about the mistakes that are commonly made, at least from a photography perspective.
Mistake #1 – Quantity Over Quality
So it’s no secret that everyone wants a better bang for their buck or more value for what they’re spending. We all want that. But the question becomes: at what cost? Last week, a day before the consultation, mentioned above, I had lost a bride to another photographer/videographer. This bride said that, “I’m getting a longer video from the other videographer, but your quality is definitely better.” Those were her exact words. So she already noted that we had better quality, but was getting more products (or a longer video), of a lower quality, for a similar price. Yes, that bride will get a longer video, but if the video is longer than 8-10 minutes, how often are you really going to watch it? Ask any bride with a really long video and they’ll say they may have watched once after they first received it.
The same goes for photography. Many brides say, “Oh I want more albums for my parents.” But ask parents when was the last time the opened their kids wedding album? If the parents are half way tech savvy, they’ll just fire up the computer or iPad and look at the photos on there.
For something as special and “once in a lifetime” type of an event like a wedding, wouldn’t you want the best quality that you could afford? Albums can always be made later and the same goes for longer videos, as long as it’s filmed with that in mind.
You want the best initial quality that you can get. 10 years from now, all you will have is the magical memories in your head and your photos (and/or video).
This is just my opinion, but I would rather have better quality over more stuff/products. But everyone is different. I often hear from brides or friends of friends that they regret going getting a cheaper photographer b/c the quality was definitely heart-breaking.
Mistake #2 – Who is the Wedding really for? You or your parents?
Parents usually pay for a large portion of the costs of a wedding. I understand that weddings can get much more expensive than people realize. And because the parents are fitting the bill, they feel like they can invite many of their friends, some of whom you’ve only met once or twice. Or maybe it’s family that you’ve never met before in your life. The point is that SOME parents are just trying to show off their children or maybe how much money they have. But if those guests having little to no bearing on the marrying couple, why are they there?
I remember talking to 1 bride and she said something along the lines of: “I don’t even know about 100 of these people.”
I asked: “So why are they here?”
Bride: “They are friends of my parents. And since they are paying for the wedding, I couldn’t tell them ‘No’. I really didn’t want to have a wedding this big.”
You want to have fun at your wedding! And if more people, who you don’t even know will not make you happy, why spend the money?
Plus, the one (significant) way that you’re going to be save money on your wedding is by inviting less people. When catering costs from $75 to $300 per person that is most likely going to be your greatest cost. It’s not saving couple hundred on your photographer. And like I said above, your photos and the memories in your head the only thing that you’re going to have 10-20 years from now.
Mistake #3 – Scheduling Your Ceremony Early or Trying to Save money on the Reception by having it at Mid-Day
Catering is cheaper on weekdays, Sundays, and middle of the day on Saturday. And this is due to the basics of supply and demand. And many popular venues have 2 weddings on a Saturday: mid-day and night. So I get it, if you want to save money, you may have to aim for a Saturday Mid-Day Reception. But you know what else that does? That drives your ceremony to around 10am and that also drives your make up and hair appointment to around 5-6am. And since most weddings don’t run on time, this can make for a very very stressful morning. B/c when you’re behind schedule, there is little to no opportunity to make up the time. Often you have to shorten the photography portrait time, to get back on schedule.
And if you or your family are not morning people, this is double trouble.
If you have a free moment, please read our blog post on managing time for your wedding day. 🙂
Mistake #4 – Big Time Gaps in the Wedding Day
So churches tend to have set times for weddings on Saturdays. And oftentimes, the ceremony times will get booked over a year out, especially the really beautiful churches. So that may force you to have your ceremony really early, say 11am. But your cocktail hour and reception does not start until 6pm. So what are you guests going to do between 1230pm and 6pm? This usually kills the vibe and momentum for the day and many venues hate this as well, b/c some guests, who didn’t read the invitation will show up at the venue around 130pm and wonder “where is everyone”. And the catering manager has to kindly tell them that the party does not start til 6pm. I’ve had a few catering managers mention this to me.
And from a photography/video standpoint, yes, we can occupy some of that time with an extended portrait session with the family, bridal party, or bride and groom, but that’s a big block of time for which you still have to pay your photographer.
Mistake #5 – Not Setting Yourself to Have Fun
Your wedding is supposed to be one of the best times you ever have in your life! Seriously, Ridiculous, Out of this World Kind of Fun! And you’re not going to be having fun if you’re worrying about little details. That’s what good day of coordinator or planner or best friend is for! And if you’ve chosen the best vendors possible, you should have nothing to worry about besides, maybe, the weather. So, do yourself a favor and don’t plan to “double check” or “verify” or “fix” something on your wedding day. I’ve had so many brides want to double check that X, Y, or Z was completed. Try to enjoy the day and delegate that to someone who can get it done. Sit back, relax, and enjoy your day!!!
When you’re a 1st generation American or you emigrated to the States and you’re getting married, you often have to honor your parents and your native culture while mixing in the American/Western traditions and making them your own. Every culture is different. And for Jolie and Hayden, they hit a home run with everything! It was a great mix of East and West.
If you’re not familiar, oftentimes, the Groom has to arrive at the Bride’s residence with offerings and gifts. And in Hayden’s case, he and his groomsmen had to pass a few “tests”, hence all the zaney antics after the getting ready photos. And they really made it with their own this little things like Mickey & Minnie on the car or entering the reception led out by a child dressed as Darth Vader and the Imperial March playing as their music! And they even had little games/contests during the reception to see if the bride and groom could identify each other while blindfolded. It was so much fun to photograph!
Thank you Jolie & Hayden for having me as your wedding photographer!
Not every wedding has a to be a big affair with lots of family and lots of friends. Although, I will admit: having the positive energy, vibes, and buzz of having a lot of loved ones around can make your day overflow with wondrous love and energy. It’s quite an amazing feeling to experience when you’re a photographer working a wedding. When I can feel those vibes, I know the couple are 2 special people.
But witnessing love amongst 2 people, with me, their photographer, as their only witness, there is something just as, if not more, magical. To witness 2 people get married without the weight of friends and family is quite amazing. Literally, it was just the bride, groom, and me. 3 total people. Well 4, if you count the City Hall Officiant. I feel truly honored and privileged to be their witness and photographer.
Congratulations to Natsumi and Hansen!
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Also don’t forget to check out the photos, here!
As the business grows and continues to gain traction, I find myself having more and more fun at weddings. And I think it’s b/c we do a better job of connecting with our clients and getting to know them. And when I met Kelly & Tim, I knew they would be a great client for us. Kelly & Tim are such great people! B/c of their kind hearts and calm & cool personalities, I really felt like we connected and really really really wanted to hit a home run for them with the photos (and video).
And on their wedding day, b/c of the super hot day, they could have easily been grumpy, but they weren’t! It was over 90 degrees outside! They were so chill and enjoyed every single moment of their day! And it’s weddings like these, that really remind me that I love what I do. Their families and all their friends are super amazing and fun! I mean, who brings bagpipe players to their wedding? So much fun!
Thank you Kelly & Tim for having us as your wedding photographer and cinematographer!!
(Stay Tuned, tomorrow, for their highlight reel)
Ceremony: Our Lady of Hope
Reception: Water’s Edge
Photography: Esvy Photography
Cinematography:Esvy Photography
Florist: Friend
DJ: 2nd To None
Hair: Bliss Spa by Massie Tahiri
Make Up: Kristin Mavroson DeRosa
Fun would be an understatement when I describe what it was like to photograph Nicole & Greg’s Wedding. I don’t think I’ve ever had more fun, photographing a wedding. And I’ve photographed some pretty fun weddings! This wedding was just an absolute blast!!! Do people still say that? Or am I showing my age? Either way, it was a really really good time! Everyone so full of positive energy. The day was not rushed and everything pretty much worked out the way it was supposed to. And both families were fabulous! And it shows in both Nicole and Greg, both wonderful people! I wish all weddings and couples could be this awesome!
So how do you go about to choose your wedding photographer? Personality? Location? Experience? Style? Number and Quality of Online Reviews? Referral? Price? Amount of time on the day of the wedding? Hopefully, it’s a combination of all these factors. But let’s go through what I feel are some of the more important, from a photography perspective.
PRICE
Let’s get straight to it, we all work hard for our money and we want it to go a long way. But to be honest, price should be the least of your concerns. There’s a saying that “You get what you pay for.” Meaning, if you pay a budget price, you’re going to get a budget product. And if you pay a luxurious price, you should be getting a luxury product. And after all is said and done with your wedding, the only thing you will have left from your big day are your memories and your photos (and maybe a video). So if you’re going to spend all of that money on your wedding (flowers, dress, catering, lighting, design,etc), don’t you want to remember all of the amazing moments that made the day so special and serve as a reminder and great memory as to why you married your partner.
And as you’ll see from the items below, price should not matter. If your photographer hits these major points, you’ll be happy with your decision regardless of price.
PERSONALITY
This is a big one for me. When I’m on the phone or in a consultation with potential clients, I’m reviewing them, as much are they are reviewing me. At some basic level, we all need to get along and like each other, right? Not all photographers are as professional as you’d like them to be, either. Ideally, the couple and the photographer are people that I would invite to a weekend BBQ at my house or at least maybe grab a drink with during happy hour. The point is that the photographer is the only vendor that is with the couple the entire day and will be there for all the ebbs and flows of the day. We, photographers, wear many hats and have many responsibilities on the day of wedding, in addition to making beautiful photos. If you don’t have a day of coordinator or planner and something goes wrong, we have to be a stand in therapist and problem solver. If you’re running behind schedule, we have become the coordinator and become more efficient and get you back on schedule. During portraits, we become a stylist and maybe even an emergency hair and make up person. And depending upon the photographer’s personality, they can either be a pain or a great help on the wedding day.
For me, there are some clients that I really want to work with and others that I would not go near. After about 10 minutes of chatting with most clients, I can gauge what type of bride/couple they are going to be. Bride-zillas really do exist! But thankfully none of my previous clients have been one.
And bad personality (jerk / a–hole) photographers also exist. Some photographers can be real divas and care more about their portfolio than delivering a complete wedding day story, to you, in your album and web gallery.
Don’t select one that will make your special that much more stressful, either. It should be as if your photographer is just a cool guest at your wedding, that enhances your experience on your special day and makes it that much more fun.
STYLE
Do you want more staged portraits? Do you want more candid? Do you want more photojournalism? Do you want a film look? Do you want more B&W? These days with digital photography, everyone is a photographer with a camera on their cell phones. And with Instagram everyone knows how to use filters. But not everyone has the right eye. And while each photographer may be pretty similar in look, their styles are always a little different. Some things that you may notice is that some photographers are more about the big scene and less about the intimate emotion. Can you spot the difference when looking a the different websites? Or are you just in awe at the pretty photos and getting really excited about your wedding?
Today, you like a certain look to your photos, meaning a kind of filter, style, or process on your photos; but how will they look in 20 years? Will the filter/look feel dated and super old-fashioned in the future. This to me is the very important. Much like fashion, imaging trends come and go, but certain things will always be classic. The heavy photoshop and/or Instagram look is cool now, but I can bet your $5 that it will feel dated pretty quickly.
Whether you choose us or another photographer, I always advocate for a more classic look that will stand up better over time. That way, the only thing you will criticize in the photos is the poor fashion choices you made for the bridesmaids dresses. 😛
EXPERIENCE
I think this kind of goes without saying, you want your photographer to have photographed at least a few weddings. Yes, they might know how to use a camera or read a book on how to operate one. But that does not mean they are able to handle all of the little things that come up in a wedding day. Will they be able to think on the fly and become an active problem solver? An experienced photographer means that they will not contribute to the stress on your wedding day and actually help to make things run smoother.
Now, what about experience at a particular venue? This is not a big deal to me b/c photographers, at least in a local area, can always scout a location ahead of time and do their homework, so that they are prepared. On another note, if a photographer has worked a venue before, they may not be as creative, they may just snap back to what they have done previously and not look for that amazing photo. Whereas, a photographer that is new to a venue may try new angles and perspectives that no one else has seen before. it can go either way, really. It all depends on how your photographer sees the world through their camera.
ONLINE REVIEWS
Obviously, the more positive reviews, the better. But be wary of the photo studios that have 1000s of reviews. Those are more usually just the cookie cutter studios that don’t provide personal attention and in some cases they just outsource the photography. You should be looking for photographers who have anywhere from 10-200 reviews. Those are the individual photographers or studios that are doing well and running a reputable business.
LOCATION
Generally you want a photographer in your general geographic area, but it’s not a deal breaker. If you love a photographer from another state or even another country, that should not prevent you from booking them. You may love their style or their personality. Chances are they will arrive a day early, scout the locations and deliver amazing photos and go that extra mile for you, just b/c they are traveling. Photographers like to travel just like everyone else. And when I get a wedding outside of NY, it’s great! And just like any business trip, they employer should be prepared to cover the travel expenses.